Tips for helping students who are being cyberbullied

  • Encourage your students to tell someone - you, another teacher, a friend, their parents or carers, or another adult they trust.
  • Reassure your student that it's not their fault.
  • Contact the student's parents, in line with the school guidelines on bullying.
  • Offer practical advice, such as:
    • Don't reply to the bully or send a nasty message back
    • Remove the bully from your friends list (if you know them) and use built-in privacy tools to block them
    • Save or print off any copies of the messages/content as proof if action is taken - don't delete them (even if they are upsetting).
    • Investigate the incident, including taking steps to identify the perpetrator and witnesses and pulling together evidence. 
    • Try to contain the incident - for example, by asking the perpetrator to remove the content.
    • Listen to how your student wants you to handle the situation - they might be worried that telling you will get them into more trouble with the perpetrator.
    • Report the incident to your manager and anyone else required, as outlined in your school's anti-bullying policy .
    • Report the incident to your student's internet/mobile/social networking provider - they'll probably have a special team to deal with this kind of thing and could take action including giving the victim a new mobile number, terminating the perpetrator's Web account or taking down content. Click here for the contact details of some of the leading internet and mobile companies.
    • If you think someone has broken the law or that your pupil could be in serious danger, contact the local police immediately.
    • Work with the perpetrator to try to change their behaviour and offer access to any support they need.
    • Give the victim the details for Childline, the NSPCC or Samaritans if they would like to speak to someone in confidence about what has happened.
    • Recommend charity websites for further advice, such as Beatbullying and Cybermentors

    You can find more advice from the DCSF here .

     
     
     
     

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